8 Mistakes Men Make When ApproachingWomen [Must Read]

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Think you know all there is to know about
picking up women?

You will be surprised at these 8 mistakes most
men make when trying to approach a woman they
like.

1. Starting Out On The Defensive

Ironically, the mistake a lot of men make when it
comes to approaching women simply fearing the
worst. This isn’t always true (at all), but once you
start believing it is you’ll immediately be on the
backfoot, trying to think of solutions to problems
that really, haven’t even arisen. The last thing you
want to do is see any woman as a ‘challenge’ or as
though you need to learn any ‘tricks’ to persuade
potential partners to talk to you. Doing this will be
what puts women off, not the things you were
initially worried about. Forget what you’ve heard,
approaching a woman is not about game-playing.
Women will always rather get to know a friendly
guy who means what he says than someone who’s
trying to play it cool.

2. Wrong Place

Everywhere you go is not a pick up zone — you
have to thoughtfully work out where you can
actually approach women you don’t know. There is
no point striking up conversation with a potential
partner if they are already in a situation where they
don’t feel like flirting: you’re dooming yourself to
failure. For instance, t’s a safe bet to stick to bars,
when women are more often than not feeling their
best and already in the mood for socialising and
open to getting to know people. The buzzy
atmosphere of a bar also means that you can
casually make conversation with less fear of
rejection. Pick the right place where you know she
isn’t feeling stressed out or busy.

3. Not Being sensitive to the situation

Sometimes, women just want to go out drinking
and dancing. So seeing girl out having a good time
does not necessarily mean they want to be
approached by men. Be prepared that chances are
that most people won’t be that interested in
hanging out with strangers when they’re out to
have a laugh with their mates. And if you get the
vibe that you’ve interrupted a night that you’re not
welcome on (if she’s not continuing the
conversation, if she’s more interested in her
friends) then just amicably excuse yourself to the
bar and carry on with your night.

4. Being too drunk

Being with a man who is in control is important to
women. Women don’t want to be with a guy we
have to force feed water during a night out, help go
to the loo or keep from getting into fights at the
bar. You’re also way more to get distracted from
the woman you’re trying to talk to by other women,
slur your words and just be generally unapologetic
and annoying. Until you’re well into a relationship,
avoid getting too drunk.

5. Using Pick-up Lines

Sorry, guys, but everything you’ve learned about
using pickup lines to start a conversation with
women is dead wrong. There is nothing cheesier,
less interesting or more of a turnoff than a guy who
uses a standard opening line. Why? It shows he
lacks confidence, period. It shows he’s literally
spent time reading up on the best way to approach
a woman and that he needs other guys to tell him
what to say and how to act. Whatever you do, a
simple hello is better than a bad line.

6. Not Asking Direct Questions

The worst thing a guy can do is come up to us and
talk about himself for the entirety of the
conversation. If you have to talk about how
amazing you are, it’s probably because you’re not.
Asking questions about her life shows you’re a
considerate guy, and there’s more of a chance we’ll
feel a connection — which will make it much easier
to get a date.

7. Being Too Touchy

As a general rule — whether its approaching a
woman you don’t yet know, or progressing things
further once you make it to the bedroom, just echo
the movements she makes towards you. Wait for
her to make the move to make contact with you,
and then do that too. Build up to different parts of
the body, but do it following this routine. But
regardless, don’t do this in the supermarket
because although you might be getting good vibes
from your partner in crime, you will creep out the
other shoppers.

8. Concentrating Too Much On Her

Not You Often, a guy will concentrate too much on
what a woman’s reaction to him is rather than on
the conversation taking place. If you’re
overthinking what you’re supposed to say and
where your hands are supposed to be (in your
pockets? By your sides?), she’ll know. And it will
get awkward. If anything, try thinking of
approaching a woman as starting a conversation
with a good friend — be casual about it, be a good
listener and let her talk. Another way to think
about it: If it works out you’ll gain a date. If it
doesn’t, what are you really losing?

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